Dear @Formydad,
Welcome to the community and thank you so much for sharing your story. What wonderful commitment you are showing to your father and I am sure that it is well-appreciated.
I am really sorry to hear what an effect the test results have had on you. Understandably you are very stressed out at the moment.
It definitely is difficult to keep everything straight and remember all of the conversations during a consult. We have started a thread on tips for making the most of them here: Tips on making the most of your consults.
Please keep us updated on your father’s status and how you’re going. Sharing really makes it easier and I hope this community will give you the support that you need to get you through.
Yours sincerely,
THomas